Because I Said So!!! Mom Knows Best!

Date: 11/10/09
Stress Level: MED but started off Over the Top.
New Grey hairs added: 12

WOW, this morning was on the nutty side. Started out with the mandatory
bickering with 16 year old boy who lives in my house. ( Can't you tell I am a little
upset with him today) He did not, once again and again, have his clothes ready for he
said he didn't have time to dry them. (Ehem, remember he came home at 10 am the
day before but apparently 22 hours is not time enough) SOOOOOOOO he was late.
I gave him the "When I was your age" monologue and got the "Stop being such a Drama
Queen Mom" shoulder shrug and avoidance factor. Teenagers, you can't live with them and
you can't bury them in the backyard. Anywho, as frustrated as I was with that late
male I was even more frusterated with the older one.
As I told you today was picture day. I was supposed to go with a friend for I hate
going anywhere with John that involves a store, mall or well let's just say any public
place. So I had plans to go with my friend but late last night she told me she couldn't
do it and I could not reschedule so I was stuck with "Him". I told him at 8 PM that we needed
to be there by 10:30 AM. Lots of time, RIGHT?
Well, he got up and ready early enough but then camped out on the couch to watch his
mandatory 72 news programs and when it was time to leave at 9:30 ( we had to pick up the
dress first.) he could not find his keys. SOOOOOOOOOOO, he looked and looked and looked
and I looked and looked and looked and grumbled under my breath why doesn't he get ready before
hand then relax to its time instead of waiting to the last minute. Well at 10 he found them and I had to
call and let my friend know we were on our way to get the dress and to leave it outside since she was
supposed to leave at 9:45. SO this is where the grey hairs came in...........
Pictures went great though. Shots were awesome but I must say those places and their photo
packages are such a scam. They had a deal for 7.95 you get all these prints but what they
don't tell you is they are all the same pose and none of the Fancy shots. Bummer. When they show you
the other shots you right away forget about the 7.95 deal and think bigger. Also, the last time
I was there the kind people at Sears talked me into the discount card you buy that is
supposed to give you all sorts of deals like BOGO and a free 8x10 ect ect......well what they don't tell you
there is that isn't combined with any other offers and it is virtually useless. SO out some cash there.
Then I tried sending John to look at tools while I ordered the photos so he would not faint of sticker
shock and it took so long for her to add the "I got this Mom on the sucker line" extra touches that he was back
well before I ordered. He didn't faint but I brought a brown paper bag for him just in case he hyperventilated
just in case.
Didn't turn out too bad though, I managed to get out of there for 110.00 bucks. I did only plan on 30 bucks
but I will scrub the sucker sign off my forehead later. I did get some awesome shots and know I will cherish them
plus some are holiday gifts too boot! After we ate lunch at Boston market for free from a Buzzagent thing I am
doing so he calmed down some after that.
The rest of the day was smooth sailing so stress level went way down after that and I did get a few prizes in
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Date: 11/09/2009
Stress Level: Mild
New Grey hairs added: 2

Here we are on a typical Monday. What did I accomplish on this mild weathered day you ask? Not
a darn thing. I woke up with good intentions and did manage to get some housework done as well as some
real work but I had a list of "To Do" items sitting by my computer that sit still undone.
My sons school called around 11 AM and said he was sick and needed to come home. Funny how a 16
year old boy is always sick on Mondays after he is fine all weekend long. I miss the days when you put them
in bed and he stayed there until the next morning. After he took a long nap he was remarkably restored and
that was the moment I picked to discuss the merits of his being grounded until his room was cleaned. He swears
I never mentioned it before, I swear I did over and over again all the while trying to not Swear. Did I win that
battle? PFT, well lets just say half his room is clean and I only took 4 Tylenol before I caved and let him watch
TV.
My daughter who does stay where you put her was in a great mood all morning that quickly faded into
" I hate I am stuck where you put me, when will I be able to walk? When will I have some teeth to
bite you with? Peas belong in my ears and nose not in my mouth!" I also have to handle all this with a
smile because unlike my son who was born happy and now 16 years later became moody and sensitive
she was born that way and if you approach her without a smile she thinks the world is over and will
promptly cry like there is no tomorrow.
Sadistic I know but my son and I had to experiment with my philosophy that Rowan reacts to
other peoples facial expressions and spent the better part of an hour a few days ago taking turns
frowning and smiling at her to prove my theory. You frown, she screams. You smile she laughs.
You keep a straight face she gets confused and smacks you in the face until you cry then she
joins you.
Tomorrow I have her pictures scheduled and I will let you know how Miss Emotion does with that!

Moral of the Day: No two kids are alike

I decided it is about time I started a blog! The overwhelming desire
to share my vast amounts of knowledge, or lack of on any given subject has
came to a head and I feel the need to scream from the nearest mountain top
(There is a few in the UP but nothing like those out west) and share my life experiences.
I have spent 40 years on this planet and though I have been told I am opinionated and
stubborn at times I feel I do have a tidbit or two of useful knowledge here and there that might
help another person down the line. I have seen a lot of lows and even felt a few highs and have
came to the conclusion that you need to take each day as it comes and be thankful for every
night you get to lay your head on a soft pillow and drift off with a clean conscious.
A person might consider me a "Jack of all Trades" and though I am not an expert of
any I do know just enough on a vast array of topics to ease the growing pains of another.
I am a little crafty, a little sporty and a little head in the clouds and have been told more then
once I am a good listener. I feel this makes me just well rounded enough to be some use.
My goal for this blog is to have a place to vent, brag, wallow, laugh at my own situation and
if I can get my feelings down on paper ( well, virtual) I might be able to cleanse them from my
always overfull plate. If I can help a person as I grow it is just all the better.

I am a 40 year young woman with loads of dreams and only a 50
percent follow-through rate. I grew up in Royal Oak Michigan and currantly live
in te Detroit suburb of Eastpointe Michigan. A mid-sized, cultrially diverse town
that borders Detroit.
I am the only daughter of an only daughter and spent the first 12 years of
my life living with my Grandparents on my mothers side. I went to Catholic School through
5th grade where my Grandmother was a school teacher and my Grandfather worked for
Ford Moter Company. I was well traveled as a child and have been just about everywhere since
at a young age I had the advantage of living with two retired caregivers who loved to travel.
We also had a summer house on Black Lake in Northern Michigan where I have some of my
best memories.
When I was 12 I went to live with my mother who worked for the Huntington Woods Police
Department and ended up going through quiet a few years of turmoil. In hindsight I realize she
never fully grew up herself and it was the immature leading the immature and by the time I was 15
I was in Foster care after spending a few years in various youth programs. By 17 I was living on my
own and working fulltime and have to give a lot of props to my Foster Parents for helping me
find my way and put me on a path to becomming whole. They even helped my with the setback of loosing my Grandfather.
I spent a few years as a crazy independant youth who enjoyed my friends, social life and job. I loved
working in Resturaunts and decided that was what I wanted to do with my life. I worked my way through
school and just about when I was about to take a giant step on the corporate ladder I met my sons father
and found myself pregnate at 24. Determined to not repeat the mistake my parents made I choose not
to get married against my Grandmothers loud advice and on October 28th in 1993 I became a mother
of a healthy 7 pound nine ounce boy I named Andrew.
I went back to work when he was 3 months old and within a month knew I missed him so much I could not stand
being away from him and decided to open a home based daycare where I could be with my son and still be able
to pay my bills. I took all the state classes and turned my basement into a daycare and spent the next two years
being a part of my sons life every day. I also became single again. This happened about the same time
one of my best friends became single so she moved in with me and we did our Kate and Alley take on
the world for the next year or so. I miss that time period for I truely had it all right then, my son, my friend,
a nice place to live and lots of hope for the future.
After two years I went back into my field of choice and loved my job as much as I loved my son though
the hours could have been a lot better. I also bought my first house and found out I had champainge tastes on
a beer budget and learned the ins and outs of being frugal. In the next few years I learned home matiance, car repairs,
coupon, dopuble coupon, thrif stores and all about sales. Though I had to work I also made sure my
son got to experiance some of the travel experiances I did and we managed to take two really great vacations
a year. Things could not have been better and even though I was without a man in my life I did
have my son and looked forward to each new day!
For the next five years or so everything was awesome and even though my son was diagnosed with
ADHD I chose not to medicate him he kept me going with his antics and I realized what a clever child I had.
My carreer was also going strong.
In 1999 the bottom fell out of my world with the death of my Grandmother for she truely was
the glue that held our family together. My mother and my strained relationship grew even worse and
I was tired of not finding my Prince Charming and dropped out of the world so to speak for a while.
I was also diagnosed with Arthritus in my spine and just when I found my carreer at its strongest
I found my body at its weakest and needed to refocus my life. I did some free-lance writing and
had a few childrens works published and knew I needed to go back to school to find a new carrer path
that would see me through the future.
A few years ago I ran across a man I have known for many years and he had also been single for a while
and we started spending time together. Last year I found out I needed a hysterectomy and even though
I did not plan on more children I was still saddened over this. A month or so before it was scheduled I went to
my doctor for I was feeling ill and found out I was pregnate. WOW!! I was 39 with a 15 year old son and
just about passed out on the floor in the doctors office. All he could do was laugh for he also got to
inform me that not only would a pregnacy fix what was wrong with me I would be extra fertile after the
childs birth.
John and I had a baby girl last July after a very ruff pregnacy. She was induced a week early and spent
the first week of her life in NICU but has now made up for lost time and keeps us very busy. She is also
the apple of her 16 year old brothers eye who always wanted a brother or sister. She is my pride and joy right now.
Even though I do not have the energy I had with my son I now have more patiance and feel
I am more savey. I enjoy everything she does on a whole differant level than I did my son and take
pride in everything she does. I feel after all these years I have learned what is important and what is
not and how to let the trivial slide off my back and hole onto the good points. I am also amazed at the
strides they have made in child rearing aids since my son was little all those years ago and can reflect on
what was good for him and what is good for her with wonder and amazement. I feel blessed that I
can compair the two and have been given a rare first hand glimpse at progress in motion.
Every day from now on will be an adventure for all of us and baby Rowan is at the center of it!

   Review for Crap
by Erin Elisabeth Conley, Karen Macklin, and Jake Miller


Product Details
* Paperback: 96 pages
* Language: English
* ISBN-10: 0979017351
* ISBN-13: 9780979017353

Mom says:
I was surprised when I read "Crap" that it
didn't stink! ( Booo Boooo, I know I know) Okay, for real now.
I was impressed. it was a good book. It was packed full of
lots of useful information jammed with cute little jokes
and quirky definitions tossed in between segments to break
up the monotony. There quips were even funny unlike my own.
It taught them how to deal with out ignoring a problem all together.
It also taught them how to tell the difference from an issue that
matters and should be taken to heart and one they might
be blowing out of proportion. I really liked the fact in encouraged
them to think their feelings were right and justified without
using another person as a crutch or excuse to shoulder the
blame. There were not right or wrong answers in the book
and not a clear cut map on how to handle things but more
like a general theory and easy to understand strategy's that
can be manipulated to fit any problem. Even an adults.
The only thing I did not like is that I feel it is meant more for
pre-teen and not full fledged I have my wings now 14 and up.
The tone is too airy and the subjects to light for a 16 year old
who believes the World is out to get them to relate to. My 16
year old is reading it now but after I read it I think I would have
been better off letting the 12 year old. That would have been a
perfect fit and we might have avoided her having the
attitude the 16 year old now has. I do believe the theory's will
work if the person ready is not already so tainted they will give
them a chance.


Teen says:
Okay, it took me a few weeks to read it but it
wasn't because I didn't like the book it was because Mom
told me it was like a self help job and Pleaseeeeeee, what
a pain. I was hoping for some thrillers or even a classic to
review and she tossed this at me. She rode my butt to I
opened it and I wish I had before she started driving me nuts
for I might have dealt with it better. The book was good, it
had a lot of tips that really worked. Some I already knew but
it was cool to see them on Paper to be reminded. Other's I
had never thought of and it did help me to pick and choose
what I got all worked up about. Sometimes people are stupid
and you have to deal ya know? I am glad she made me read
it for I am not as annoyed at her now as I was a week ago. I
suggest though that you just leave it in the car or something
for your kid to read when they are bored to find out they like
it for if I hadn't agreed to help my Mom do reviews in the
first place I never would have looked at it for it was her
idea but if we were driving somewhere or another place
where my options were to talk to my Parents or read I
would have picked it up on my own. Good Book is
my say so!

The reviews are here


All books that are reviewed are published free of charge from various publishers


Hold on to your hats guys, the book reviews are
already rolling. 3 books are on the slate for this month and
I hope to start getting the reviews posted as soon as I
can. The First review is complete and posted.
The order of the reviews will be Fiction, Non-Fiction and Family Choice.
Please scroll down to the review you are looking for!

The first book up is my choice and provided by LitFuse
who has offered to host a contest as well. It is a thriller,
detective story and those are always a blast for me.
The book they have provided is...................


Double Trouble
By-Susan May Warren




With one solved case under her belt, PJ Sugar is ready to dive into her career as a private investigator. Or at least a PI's assistant until she can prove herself to Jeremy Kane, her new boss. Suddenly PJ's seeing crime everywhere. But is it just in her head, or can she trust her instincts? When she takes on her first official case-house-sitting for a witness in protective custody-Jeremy assures her there's no danger involved. But it soon becomes clear that there is someone after the witness . . . and now they're after PJ, too.


John's pick is not really my thing but since he has to read and give and
honest review of my choices it is only fair I do the same for him. He is all
gung ho on this one for it is right up his alley, sports and non-fiction.
I can pretty much promise you he will read this watching a football or
hockey game. His choice is.............


From Peanuts to the Pressbox
Insider Sport Stories From A Life Behind The Mic
By Eli Gold



In this behind-the-scenes look at sports broadcasting Eli Gold
tells how a kid from Brooklyn, New York, went from selling peanuts
at Madison Square Garden to being one of the most recognizable
voices in all of radio sports broadcasting.
From Peanuts to the Pressbox is an intimate walk down memory
lane, reliving some of the greatest moments in Alabama sports
(basketball and football) and NASCAR. Gold also shares
stories from his early days with Yankees broadcaster Mel Allen
and Red Barber and other broadcasting greats, such as Bob Costas,
Tom Hammond, Verne Lundquist, Kevin Harlan, Ron Franklin,
and Mike Tirico.


Our last book this month is our family choice. We try to keep up
on trends, currant events and advancements in child rearing and in the
medical field. Also we are both educational nuts and try to keep that
in mind when picking books for our children or how to books to help
or inspire them. This choice we thought we be good to help them
with moral and values and just plain old faith.The last pick is............






Family Choice Review




Product Description
___________________



A collection of 365 daily devotions that
that center on topics that pertain to toddlers
up to pre-school aged children. Each day has
a verse, story and prayer. Illustrated with
child friendly graphics and full of charm.


Product information
_______________________


Hard covered
for ages 3-5
385 pages
Tyndale Kids
ISBN 978-1-4143-3445-5
Suggested retail price $14.99 USA
________________________



Publisher's Description
Watch your young children grow
in their understanding of God as you
meet with him together using this One
Year devotional. Each reading pairs a
Little Blessings illustration with a short
Bible verse and devotional thought that
gets you and your child talking about the
simple truths of Scripture. A fun, rhyming
prayer completes each devotional. A great
way to get young children interacting with
Scripture daily
__________________________________


Michelle Says


I grew up in a deeply religious house
and this took me home but with more
softness. My family was much more
strict. The book is chalk filled with
Nano Stories that bring about good
feelings and happy thoughts.

I loved that it was written in an
easy to read format that though
it is meant to be read to kids
can easily become an early reader
for them to tackle on their own a
few years later. The verse is
prevalent for each little story
and inspiring. The story is
perfect for young attention spans
and the prayer is so simple
any child can repeat it and
take something away from
the experience.

_______________________________


John Say's

I did not grow up in a religious
household and do not know any
of the verses of prayers but I
though it was cute and taught
good values and is great for
teaching kids what is right
and what is wrong. It is quick
to read too so even when I am
busy I can get in a story or two
and the story's are broken up
enough and vary just the right
amount where I can read as
long as or as little as I want
to my kids without them feeling
like we are stopping at a point
where they are left hanging.
The little prayers are cool
and to the point of be nice,
be good and other little
morals parents struggle
with teaching their kids
now a days.
__________________________


Andrew says


It reminds me of the story's
Grandma Great used to read.
I liked it!





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my 16 year old son and hopefully my 12 year old step daughter post their
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